Wake Them Up!

“Money is the root of all evil,” the young Armenian male bank teller said after explaining to me that he loves money.

Well, what’s not to love? I thought. As the old joke says, it’s way ahead of whatever is in second place. Well, we all know that love is the most important thing in the world and not in second place at all. But, really, when you have love and no money…? Doesn’t feel quite as first placey, somehow.

I heard about a study recently that said that most women, when questioned, chose more money a week in their checking accounts over having more sex. We've always been a more pragmatic gender.

One can buy sex. But, one can’t buy money. Gotta have it to buy it. And, as the song goes, your love doesn’t pay my bills. A male first must feather the nest with the finest to attract the finest females; I figure my young money-loving teller is figuring.

He told me he was studying to become a C.P.A. That's great, I’d said. That is a good job, always in demand in our tricky economic situation. I don’t know if he felt guilty from family influence, or a church, but it seemed he had a need, to let me know that he did know that money is bad.

I can’t imagine a parent telling a young man that wanting to earn money was evil. Maybe he attends an Orthodox church that promotes vow of poverty rhetoric. Rich man, camels, eyes of needles, and all...

Money isn’t the root of all evil, I told him. Selfishness and greed are. There is certainly nothing inherently evil about clam shells or whatever we used in our previous incarnations to pay for things. Receiving cash, clams, whatever, is just a thank you gift for your product or service.

If we lived in a less selfish society where we took care of each other and lived with a barter system, it would be better. I could give you a few dozen eggs from my free range, organically raised hens and tomatoes and zucchini and basil from my free of pesticides, organic garden for the rent. Win-win. And you are even healthier for having property to rent.

Only, it doesn’t work. We’ve grown to be too large a group. So, it’s paper, gold, silver, (copper mostly now), something concrete to hand over to say your work, service, property, is truly valued and appreciated.

If only we could get big biz to value, appreciate, and reward its workers. Instead, it’s pay as little as you can to keep your own salaries and bonuses astronomical.

What was it I heard Stephen Hemsley, the CEO of UnitedHealth, makes? I think I read $270,086.83 each month. But, I think that was before bonuses and other perks, like his retirement package. I hope he’s not covered by UnitedHealth. He earns(?) more than six times the average person’s yearly income in one month? And, again, that’s leaving out the more generous CEO perks. I heard someone say that Hemsley makes $100,000+ each hour. Wow. Now that’s greed.

Hemsley denies people’s health care needs for a living and he is richly rewarded for it. Now that is selfish. How does he sleep at night? He probably self-medicates, just as at least 46 million uninsured Americans have to do. He is evil.

And the rightwing puppets who are in the pockets of UnitedHealth Care and every other big insurance company and big pharma are, also, evil. They choose money over the welfare of the people they allege to represent, the people who voted them into their offices. The people who, out of their taxes, pay for their salaries and for their wonderful insurance coverage, are denied health care.

The screamers at the town halls who drown out the health care coverage messages, well, they're just ignorantly opposing their own best interests. They know not what they say or do. Forgive them, Jesus would say. But, I say, go out and scream over them. Yell the truth. Make them face reality. You'd be doing them a kindness. They are victims of the body snatchers. Wake them up!

Think And The World Thinks With You

Imagine there is no heaven. It’s easy. Give it a try. No hell. Except in your own mind. Above you, before you, only dreams.

You are what you think. You made your life by thinking it so. Nightmares are only in your mind. Mind as creator… Life as mirror. You thinking. Life reflecting.

You can say I’m a dreamer, but I’m not alone. You’re here. We’re all in this kitchen sink soup together. The world can live as one… We just need a wake up call. Pour the coffee into the sink…

Bastardizing John Lennon as my iPod plays.

Man. I miss that man. What the world could have been like if we’d had our great poet and activist to help guide us through these times… Composing and singing us into action against injustice. Who, old enough to remember, couldn’t just sit down and cry for that terrible day the music was murdered in prime time?

Why does the world kill genius? Why does it kill heroes, people who fight for right, justice and truth, and pave new paths for humanity to step up to higher levels of consciousness? Fear?

Why do we set people up on pedestals and then spend the rest of the time trying to knock them off? Do we try to bring them down to the level we think we occupy, so we won’t be challenged or have to strive to be better? Fear?

How much of the mind is genetic make up and how much formed from experience? I know fear is essential for human survival and therefore built into the brain. If we didn’t fear, we might not get out of the way of that Mack truck.

But, is fear and feelings of inadequacy mostly just learned? I mean when it’s not about survival. Can it be passed down from inadequate feeling ancestors? Or is it imprinted from bad parenting and bad experiences?

I’ve seen some very inadequate human specimens who feel far beyond their actual value. Case in point, our last administration in D.C. And I’ve seen wonderful humans totally self-denigrate and waste talents. I’ve seen beautiful individuals who apparently have no mirrors. I’ve seen very unattractive folks who also, apparently, don’t use mirrors.

Are we pavlovianly trained in youth? Is it a mind warp? Are minds telling some that they are not up to snuff due to someone's input or do genes work in there? Or are we all a mish-mash, potpourri of nature/nurture? A little of this, a little of that, and you have a tangled web of thinking guiding some minds into dark mires, and others into limelights, where others can throw rocks at them.

Due to good folks not stepping up and not such good folks thinking they must step up as a favor to all, our world is driven by the ego-driven, clueless ones who seek attention, power for their own sakes, missing the real point entirely. Thus, the shape of our world…

All priorities skewed to make the rich richer with slaves to help their selfish ends. Do the slaves need more stones? Or are they feeling too inadequate to throw them?

Where are you, John? Man. We miss you. I think we need you now more than ever. Come back! It's such a long, winding road... We just need a little truth... Please, sing us back to some semblance of sanity. Help us imagine a world with love. It's all we need.

Lost in time and space

Have not had time to write. Very frustrating. I apologize to followers, if you're still out here. It seems that followers are not alerted to new posts via email, so I don't know what being a follower means, actually. At any rate, I'll be back. In the meantime, keep thinking and here's a lovely quote on woman from Ghandi in 1930 as a place holder :-)

"To call woman the weaker sex is a libel; it is man's injustice to woman. If by strength is meant brute strength, then, indeed, is woman less brute than man. If by strength is meant moral power, then woman is immeasurably man's superior. Has she not greater intuition, is she not more self-sacrificing, has she not greater powers of endurance, has she not greater courage? Without her, man could not be. If nonviolence is the law of our being, the future is with woman. Who can make a more effective appeal to the heart than woman?"

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Water Works

Water. We never really thought about it much. Did we? Why would we think about water? Water has always been big part of our lives, that we take for granted. Natural part of our world. We are the blue planet, after all.

Water represents life. It’s water that allows Earth to have biology. That would be us. Without water, we wouldn’t be. All life emerged from the oceans. From one-celled plant matter to complex multi-celled animals, such as we are. We are part and parcel of our water world.

Well, we here in Southern California do think about water, when we’re on fire, for instance, and when we’re told we’re in another drought, and that the DWP will be charging more for its use or rationing it out to us.

Our bodies remain 70% water, drought or not. In fact, we’re made up of all sorts of water based creatures. Ninety percent of our body’s cells are not even human cells. We are mostly viruses and bacteria, among other things. Don’t forget to take your probiotics today. Gotta keep those little beasts in check.

Water is even a metaphor for the mind in psychological, metaphysical, esoteric or poetic writings. It’s been a part of our mental and physical milieu from our childhood years from sliding on our bellies down a garden hose soaked plastic sheet thrown onto the lawn on those hot summer days, to doing a big cannon ball into a pool just to see how much water we can displace and how many people and how much concrete we can splash.

We never had to go without water. It flows from our faucets, hot or cold. We even have instant ice machines built into our fridges. We carry it in bottles every where we go, we swim and play in it, surf in it, take baths and long showers in it, water our lawns and gardens, and watch what doesn’t evaporate of it run down the street on its way back to the ocean.

This is America. It’s our god-given right to waste water along with every other precious natural resource we have. We are the home of Disneyland. Are we not? We’ve chosen to live in Fantasy Land. And don’t mess with people’s fantasies, either, unless maybe you’re Irish and enjoy a good fight.

I made the mistake of watching Flow: For Love of Water the other night on the Sundance Channel. Never watch murder thrillers, horror films or peek into stark reality late at night. Not if you want Mr. Sandman peacefully whisking you off to dream land. This documentary is all three of the above genres. Better to remain a mushroom. You know the joke.

But, life really is a sausage factory. You go peeking through those sausage factory windows late at night, and buh-bye sleep, peace in your neighborhood, and maybe some friends, mates, or family members who quickly tire of hearing you scream at and rail against injustice. Or maybe they simply fear that finger gun you’re aiming at the TV and pulling the trigger on at talking water privatization company CEO heads.

Not that I hadn’t heard about water privatization. Who hasn’t heard about that? But, it’s just words until you’ve seen it or lived it. I haven’t lived it, still living here in Disneyland. But, being a fairly empathetic creature, (I guess the Republicans wouldn’t allow me to be a Supreme Court judge), I was horrified and outraged watching people in poor countries suffer and thirst to death at the hands of rich corporations who are privatizing their water to make more money.

The corporations then sell the water back to them from a little spicket up the path, hill or wherever they have to march with their pots to get water for cooking, drinking, washing, etc. Only here’s their catch 22. The poor people in those regions can’t afford their tapped water.

So, they drink the same polluted water they bathe and wash clothes in, perform their rituals in, and the same water corporations flush their toxic by-products into. And then they die painfully from water borne illnesses.

Why is this allowed to happen? This is not Monopoly. They are not buying Water Works. Why does business and greed trump survival of humans? Why are they allowed to treat a third world country like it’s their private treasure trove and trash bin? Why and how does greed completely erase one’s conscience? And where is the outrage? Why don’t we see this on national news shows?

Would these CEOs, who have no apparent empathy, be the Republicans first choice for judges? Do we need to do with them what local judges have done with slumlords? Do we sentence these conscience-challenged CEOs to mandatory living as the natives do without water they can afford?

I think that might be one answer to unconsciousness and cruelty. Write your President, your Senator, your Congressman, your Representatives, your TV news networks, newspapers, or anyone who would or should care and/or be able to affect laws. Demand they hold these people accountable.

Water boarding or water withholding are both torture. Those who support water boarding should be made to try it out. Come on Sean Insanity, put your courage where your mouth is. Go for it. We’re awaiting your pronouncement that water boarding is no big deal, that you were able to do it while standing on your head.

And those who withhold water from other human beings who cannot afford their fees, should have to live as those people do, sans clean water. These people need object lessons. They need to experience for themselves what they find fair to do to others. They’re probably the first ones to say they are Christians. Well, I say, do unto yourselves…

Water is life itself. Humans can make it maybe weeks or months without food, but one day without water, watch out.

So, come on, all you water bottling CEOs taking advantage of powerless poor people everywhere there is water you want to tap, man up. Go a day without it yourselves. Just one day. Let us know what a difference one day can make.

Now I have to go take a shower, fill my water bottle for the road, and get my car washed before I go to the restaurant where I will order a refreshing free, glass of water with ice.

Nut toppings

I feel I should clear up a minor misunderstanding in my last post. Post the last posting, I discovered that my friend’s immediate, and seemingly, flippant response to the question of understanding men, was not as it sounded to my ears and, probably, to your eyes. He doesn’t do flippant, he said.

Turns out he was being thoughtful, (in his own inimitable way). Who would know? When I philosophize, I wax. When he philosophizes, he apparently sets it to short and seemingly nonsensical musical ditties.

“One banana, two banana, three banana, four,” was much more of a relevant and considered response, than face value would lead one to suspect. Despite outward appearances, it held no supercilious nor silly intent.

He was simply quoting lyrics from the theme song of an old Hanna-Barbera TV show, The Banana Splits Adventure Hour, which expressed his feeling about alleged differences between the sexes.

The underlying meaning of the lyrics, my friend inferred, is that all the characters, no matter how different, strange, or annoying they may appear to be, are simply facets of one being. A “split” banana personality, so to speak.

We are all bananas. Aren't we?

If we weren’t already crazy, living in this world would drive us there. Short drive for most. To me, this planet feels like one big holding psych-ward tank of sorts. We’re all in this Mulligan stew together.

I think if we weren't a little nuts, we'd be feeling very out of sorts here. As the Far Side joke, where a man is lying on the therapist's couch while the therapist in the foreground is noting on his pad, "Just plain nuts," says it well.

There are just various kinds of nuts topping the bananas in the split. No phallusies intended. It's all one big get your just desserts kinda world.

So, my friend was apparently saying with his response, female, male, schmale… Who cares? It’s all the same. Two sides, one coin.

He doesn’t go along with broad-stroking summaries of anything. He wants specifics. Engineer brain? He’s an exacting, detail guy. I’m a big picture girl.

I know he hates when I quote the latest brain research to prove males and females are organically different and, therefore, view things and think differently. Roll of his eyes, or often outright contradiction, is what I get when I voice my latest studies, experiments and theories I've read or surmised.

He wants not to hear generic statements that men think or do this and women think or do that. He says, no. You do that. All women do not do that. Or, I do this. All men don’t do this. Or maybe he just wants to feel unique and unable to be summed up by someone's theory that's meant to cover everyone of his sex. If he is a puppet, he holds the strings.

Now, I don’t know about you. But, I would say,case in point to that. Men and women are different, different halves of one brain or not. He seems to be the left half. I’m the right. I think men get mentally mired in minute material matters, and miss the over-all meanings. They analyze components of a thing? We analyze the thing?

That's probably why they seem better at creating and fixing individual machines, but not as good at the juggling acts women perform daily to keep the overall machine running. So, I’m back on that one-track male mind theory.

I think genetically and training wise, women are more finely tuned into what is going on around them in order to keep everything running smoothly and safely for the family, while also foraging for dinner and keeping the home fires burning.

This to free up the men to sit around those fires with their buddies, popping their Buds, and swapping their tales of all those fancy/schmancy tails that got away, barely.

Two Bananas

Does anyone understand men? Anyone? Hands? Anyone?

Most women I know throw up their hands at this question, but not in order to answer it. More in baffled surrender. It even seems the older we get, the more we realize, we haven’t a clue. They boggle our minds.

Do men understand men? Do men understand themselves?

I find communication with one is often as allusive or nearly as impossible a task as a cat trying to catch a moving laser light toy. Are they just deeply mysterious characters, concerned with too many of life's important issues to be bothered with mundane matters? Or do we read too much into their silences, ducks and dodges?

I think we women over-think probably nearly everything. So, yeah, we probably assign to them all kinds of complicated stuff which they are never even considering. They probably just want us to stop talking, so they can focus their one track minds on a game, or some mechanical problem in their heads, or to go to sleep perchance to dream of some heroic deeds, or to figure out how to get laid.

What’s the latest study about the percentage of time men spend thinking about sex in a day? Something like every three seconds? I wonder what’s in their minds the other two seconds.

A dear male friend just called. He is a very mechanically and mathematically minded and very kind soul, with his female side quite well developed. He's a good teacher. He can easily and succinctly explain String or M theory to me, (though not what M stands for), and make it seem simple.

He's a computer wizard. The guy can fix any broken thing I hand him. Within minutes he fixed the juicer that had bellied up from my smashing too many carrots in at one time. He rewired his own kitchen. Fixes his own car. He’s a voracious reader of complicated sciences and and philosophies. A film maker. A photographer. Pretty good artist. A musician who plays many instruments. A composer. He’s a good carpenter. He even sews and irons. More than this woman is willing to do. If I can't spray the wrinkles out with water, I'll wear something else. He swears he cooks, too. Haven’t seen that one.

I think this sensitive, aware, well-read, brilliant minded, and talented Renaissance kinda guy should be able to explain the way men think and feel to me. So, I asked him if he understands men.

Yes, he said. He does.

I waited.

I pushed further. So?

He responded. And I quote verbatim, “One banana, two banana, three banana, four.”

Well, there you have it, simplified from the mind of masters... It seems they do have multiple track minds, after all. And that was a banana in his pocket, maybe four.

I think I have to go cook dinner now.

Spanning time...

Well, to answer one critiquer (male), of my first blog, no. This is not my version of modern journalism. It’s my space to wax poetic or not so poetic, as the spirit moves me.

And no. It wasn’t meant to be a radical or angry rant. Just thinking with fingertips, talking to women, mostly… It was a call to arms, of sorts, yeah. But, more along the lines of start with yourself, inside out. Sorry for sounding not rad enough for you, though.

To answer the two writer’s little helpers, (both male), yes. I know today’s average human attention span does not have the time nor interest to focus on my three page spiel.

The second friend said he scrolled down and simply read my last line. But, said he loved that line and was glad to see my writing out there, again. Gotta love ‘im. We were writing partners once upon a time. I still rely on his humor.

During the years around the founding of our country, our attention span, I read, was far longer, enabling people to read, comprehend, and retain multiple pages of complex material. Today with the electronic invasion of our senses, our brains are far more limited.

And with our hyper, multi-task driven lives, we only have seconds to scan and respond to all about us. We are living on the freeways of our minds, driving defensively like crazy, caffeine fueled.

But, we should, also, be aware that multi-tasking actually decreases the brain’s ability to focus and learn.

http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2006/07/060726083302.htm

Look what it did for the guy and his passengers a few months ago when he was texting his kids and engineering a train at the same time.

But, who can stop multi-tasking? Info is coming at us from everywhere all the time. And we have too much to do and too many places to be at the same time. Who’s theory stated that two things cannot be in the same place at the same time? Guess we’ve proven him wrong. Digitally enhanced living.

So,we keep our communications in sit-com format. One liners. And emailed jokes. We are dumbing down ourselves one 10-second sound bite at a time. Texting, twittering and the wall quips in facebook, seem to force us into a fast, self-conscious, superficial consciousness, trying to out quip the next guy. And all at the expense of being aware of where we are and what’s going on around us.

We are so anti-zen today. Zen Buddhism told us, when eating, eat. When eating, we are TVing, talking, texting, twittering, et al.

And that reminds me I now have 40 things to get accomplished in the next 45 minutes. I’ll have fewer brain cells by the time I accomplish them all, according to that UCLA study I linked you to above. But, maybe that’s not all bad.

Maybe we lose some memories we didn’t like or some brain bits that kept us doing some of our more stupid learned behaviors. Must get something positive out of it. Maybe with all our life in the fast lane we are simply paring the brain down to lean and mean…

I’ll be back soon. Keep thinking…

Just thinking...

This being my first stab at this, I had, of course, gone dry. Then while emailing a friend this morning, she wrote that she thought it was good that we were not involved in politics. All the dirty tricks and back scratching that is politics, she sighted for this conclusion.

Well, the sewer doesn't sound like a fun place to play. Does it? Politics is not at all a clean sport. Better to be a lady and stay out of the fray. Rise above it, or ignore it and simply make our own personal spaces pretty and comfy for us and our loved ones, while all about us are losing their heads. And, anyway, we're too busy, juggling jobs, families and friends, health care issues, bills, aging and ailing parents, et al, to undo the harm done. Let the men fix it. They created it, after all.

But, I'm thinking maybe what the world really needs now is fewer women hiding. Maybe we need to step up to the plate and take the ball. We need to get in there and straighten out some stuff that's gone totally awry in the hands of the unconscious and myopic. Off with their heads. Storm the Bastille.

I think if women across the world grabbed their metaphorical rolling pins and marched on the economic centers of their countries, we could save humanity's societies and cultures, and the environment from those males who drove the bus off the cliff.

I love men. And I think testosterone is a wonderful hormone. Directed with love and good intentions, it creates and invents. But, it seems that left to its own devices and in charge of things, it can too easily get into destructive mode. Males seem to think the guy with the most power at the end won the game.

And I'm not sure what game they're playing. It seems rather a self and universally-defeating one that if you win, the game itself is left in shreds. And how many games do you take with you when you die, anyway? It's all paper and plastic.

Or, as we've read, this world is an illusion. Rabbit in hat. But, we slipped. We fell down the rabbit hole, forgetting it was just illusion, a game, and can't find our footing in this free fall state. It all feels like a mad hatter's tea party. Doesn't it? I mean they did take neurosis off the crazy list quite a while back. Didn't they? It's pathology against pathology out there.

So, we are simply projecting our consciousness on a screen that is this waking dream/movie and we are creating in our outer world the same chaos that is our inner life. The greedy have grabbed power in the absence of any over-seeing, regulating sanity, and given us their mindset as this alleged reality in which we find ourselves struggling to stay afloat.

Ladies, I think it's time to take our power back. We need to show males that cooperation is a much more pragmatic and healthier way to achieve a sustainable survival that is best for all. Real wealth is security and happiness, anyway. Isn't it? Money is, also, just paper, or a cotton/linen blend, that is. Either way, it all burns up and it all blows away back to the unreality from whence it came.

And how can one's own conscience maintain its joy, if all about one people are starving, homeless, sad, scared with bombs being dropped on their heads? Real bombs and financial fear bombs. Where is the guilt, the shame, the mea culpa? The epiphanies? The wake up call? The helping your neighbor? And didn't one our biggest heroes, Jesus, tell us that we are our neighbor, in so many words? You can't help someone without helping yourself.

So, let's start with making the change in our own minds that we want to see in the outer world. We need to buck up, bolster our courage and confidence, ignore the naysayers, and fear mongers who want us to stay down, and be who and what we really are to bring light to this world.

I think it's been men's fear of women's real power over them that has kept them keeping us in the kitchen, closet, bedroom, wherever they can convince us we are at our best. Don't worry your pretty little head, darling. I got this. Right. Right into the ditch.

We can still teach our men to live in love, peace and harmony. Can't we? We just have to show them the way, again. We need to let them know that the bigger toys do not the man make.

We've been letting them have control because they'd cowed us. They're larger. They're louder. Their weapons are lethal. They hold their Bibles out in front of them like a shield to show that it is our purpose, our lot in life, to serve man.

They've been holding all the cards with their delusional "it’s man's world" operating manual. But, this good ol' boys' club is going the way of the Edsel and the Dodo Bird. Our current economic implosion makes that essential.

Women create and nurture life. Women are life itself. Men are here to serve life, to keep it safe and thriving and evolving. Things have been running backwards too long in our world. And thus we've been down the rabbit hole with everything upside down. Just ask Joseph Campbell. If you can dig him up.

Start your engines, ladies. Grab your rolling pins. We're mad as hell and we are not going to take it anymore. And if you're not mad, perhaps you don't know what's really been going on. Each person can make a difference no matter how small the baby steps are. We have but to believe to achieve.

Then... a client called.

She listened to my theory and said, women suck. They're cunning, conniving and manipulative and backstabbing, she said. She prefers working with men. They're more honest and direct and easier to deal with. Hey, I've felt that way myself, as have other women who've told me their work place horror stories. But, is it just our never being taught to be team players and instead learning to see each other as competition?

I'm not going with that Eve, not Adam, introduced evil to the world story. Again, we have only our own minds and hearts to tweak to get our learned and detrimental survival mechanisms out of our own light.

Are we good? Are we bad? Or are we simply going with the flow, manipulating the sanctioned existing system to advance our own ends? Is it all a study in evo-devo? Can we be our own rudders or do we remain flotsam and jetsam?

Come on, ladies, join the sisterhood. We can fix it.

OK. I think we've got enough material here for future blogs... till then, keep thinking...